I lost love – every relationship has a time line

When I think about how I lost love, I think about Alfred Lord Tennyson quotes, ' tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. " When I lost love, I felt like the whole world was collapsed around me. I share my history to help you if you have lost your love life.



I believe it is important to remember that every relationship has a natural life. In Junior high, there are approximately four days. When we become older, increases service life. But there is some relationship, is right in a period of time and then go wrong. Most of us will have only one great love in our lives. The other relationships will terminate. This is why when I say I lost love, I understand that this is a natural process.



In my case, thinking about my girlfriend and I on ratcheting up our relationship. Her lease was about to end, and she wanted to move to my apartment. As we are spending most of our time there anyway, it made sense from a financial perspective.



But there is something essential about to have separate locations. I know I lost love, because I could not handle her take our relationship to this level. I guess the time span of our relationship was up, because I was not prepared to become more engaged.



I now know I mishandled the situation. I went to a friend's bachelor Party, and let's just say things got out of hand. Word about the wild antics on the party got back to my girlfriend, of course, and she dumped me. I lost love about the events in one night.



But when I think back to what really happened, the events of the bachelor Party really was a response to our discussion of more engagement. I seriously don't think I would have behaved like I did if I really wanted her to move in. I lost love, because I was not ready for the direction that was taken.



I am glad that I had the opportunity to be in a relationship with my ex. But I do not believe that she was the love of my life, my soul mate. Instead, she was a person with whom I really enjoyed spending time. I loved her. I still love her. But she is not the person with whom I can see spending the rest of my life.



I went through a period of mourning for the relationship and analyze what went wrong. I really was injured when she said she wanted to end things. I understood the sure I had hurt her. But I did not want her to leave my life completely.



I guess what I wanted was for things to go on the way they were. But each relationship has to grow or die. Because I was not willing to let it grow, had to die. In all the circumstances, there is a time to die. And it was for me, it. This is how I lost love.