If you are trying to get the woman back, but you were a jerk to her, you can't deserves her. It may not be what you want to hear, but it may well be the truth. It is good that you recognize that you may have had a problem, but what will you do about it and why should she want you back? Until you count these things out, you can not get the woman back.
Here is what you must do to get the woman back:
(1) change the way you look at women. If you consider them property and then you don't deserve a chance. View them as people, respectfully and do your best to give it to them, and you may have a chance. To love the women you must respect women.
(2) change the way you treat women. Chivalry is not dead. Be a gentleman and treat them as Queens. If you can drag it off your chances improve. Be subtle about it and try not to draw attention. You do not want to look as you faking it. You will notice. Women are smart, and if she doesn't notice she will have a friend Note and tell her. Your credibility can be shot.
3) Learn humility. This will go a long way towards helping you get the woman back.
4) let her know that you were a jerk. If she tells you that you were, just agree with her. If she has exaggerated, or appears to she is, you should remember that she not she is. The only person who believes that the question is her if your goal is to get the woman back. You sell and you are trying to get her to buy. The customer is always right.
5) find out if she wants some space or if she wants you to come begging and then give her what she wants. It will be a hard thing to do. You may have to ask around to people who know her well. She can even feel that their efforts to test is worth give you another idea.
6) try to convince her friends you have changed. You must do this first. They will be skeptical of them and will be most interested in protecting their friend that you hurts. If you can win her friends have then you won the largest share of battle. If you try and get ex back first, are you having trouble convincing her, and even if you do this, they can talk her out of it. Will you her reliable friends for you or against you?
7) Not tell her that you changed, showing her. Words are great, but it does not matter, unless there is some measures to back it up, you need more than words.
8) Think about the long term, and if you want to be able to make this change permanent. If you can't then you will end up in the same place you are now, but only with a less opportunity to get the woman back.
Sunday, June 13, 2010
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